Understand Manipulative Behavioural Patterns:

 Understand manipulative behavioural patterns. For example, someone verbally abuses you and plays the victim later. Reports you and acts like the one traumatized. These are manipulative behavioural patterns and it has nothing to do with age. In situations like this, please seek professional counselling because it's not worth defending yourself. Avoid manipulate people & if you must relate with them for vital reasons like workplace or school environment, please be brief & choose your words carefully so the manipulator doesn't use it against you again. ...Your Counsellor will guide you more. We can link you with a Counsellor in your area. Happy Sunday🌻 @iroscounselling


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