Statements Like These Are For Idle People --(People Who Haven't Discovered Their Purpose In Life):

'my child knows how to write, how come yours hasn't started yet?'

'My first daughter is married, how come your own is still single?'

'We have our own house, when will you build yours?'

'Am a graduate, why are you still trying to gain admission?'

...

"The day you wake up and realise that you came to this world alone, and you will leave alone, is the day you learn to remove your eyes from what everyone else is doing and do your own things. Stop the competition. You are your own blueprint. Live and be original."

- Martha I. Iyen

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