Choices

We always get so excited over new things, new places, and new people. It's human nature. However, time reveals every thing has its own flaws and not-so-pretty sides. Learning to cope or choosing to let go of your "discovery" reveals how mature you are. We aren't meant to force ourselves to cope with things we can change. Realizing you have a choice in life is very important. Whatever you choose to do in life, please make sure you sit down and think things through, then decide. Some things to consider when making life changes:  health, peace of mind, finances, Faith, safety, and any other things you value like children and so on. In cases of domestic violence, always think safety first. If you still decide to wage the storm, it's still your choice. If it's a case of your health or choosing to go to work, it's still your choice. Do what works best for you and don't let anyone make you feel guilty for choosing to do things for yourself especially when they aren't in your shoes or they aren't in your support network.(That's another day's topic). Even then, it's your life. We are responsible for our choices. Make wise choices today. God bless you.

Martha I. Iyen